… on getting into fights where no one wants to throw the first punch
If you had half a brain while you were in middle school, you noticed every schoolyard fight that broke out. My school was particularly interesting because it seems that it was mostly girls that got into the physical brawls. Maybe my class brought up some bona fide wussy guys, who knows.
Occasionally there would be a Casey or a Paul that would get in someone’s face just to do it. We all know the type. Maybe in your school it was a Rhett or an Alouicious that just went by “Big Al”. All up in one another’s grill, these fights were mostly a lot of talk. By the end of the day, everyone would gather at a pre-determined submarine sandwich shop for a parking lot brouhaha. Everyone stands around, the fighters take stage, and then…
Yeah, we’ve all seen it. A lot of talk, but no walk. Crowd enthusiasm evolves to off-topic chatter and total disinterest assumes focus among the once-loyal observers. In a flurry of egomania, one of the contenders will finally throw a punch to get people interested again. Wait, what were they fighting about in the first place?

Why are so many people who feel like they’re in fights with pornography not willing to take the first punch? Why do we wait for negative effects to settle in before we make ourselves known?
p.s. I do not condone playground fighting.